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Act like a guy, think like a witch...

N. B. : The above title is not to spread depravity, a witch thinks of the most vile & evil things to do & so is virtually thinking of the worst case scenario to put individuals under at all turns. Thinking like one is not being one but making sure to put all coming evils in their place.

Our elders did marriage best because they were orthodox & lived simple, uncomplicated, tried & tested ways of life. We want to do our own thing, we want "power couples" & "ride or dies" then crash & burn. I know that sometimes it's said guys hide their women because they're ugly or hide their women because they (the guy) are being unfaithful. Unfortunately, infidelity does exist & it's simply up to the guys to keep a woman not vice versa. As a guy, if I have one woman, I'm good... when the relationship has been established, I'm going nowhere. Other guys like to march around doing crazy things, I must be part robot because I'm pretty bland & don't like chasing skirts so much & doing  crazy guy things (anymore). It's crazy to me that "stealing your bitch" is a trend, what purpose does this serve except for just being a pest? I'd never be able to do that & boast about it, it's like committing a murder & telling everyone about it. The song goes "Ama-gents ayafana" (Guys are all the same) while that type of communism is common in our ghettos, it's not really true. The following guy has different likes & dislikes than the next guy. I'm a firm believer in the private, intimate relationship where you know you're dating an individual not a fucking village where all the private things you do with your partner are public news? That is mad. I would never reduce myself to that. I'd simply say, "Madam, you're incapable of making an independent decision without other people & are owned by the public so I can't continue this relationship." End of story.

If my "significant other" & I are going to parade ourselves in public together, we better have matching tattoos or have made five children together or something because we're going to separate. Public eyes ruin beautiful things. We all know that keeping your relationship private is ideal & private relationships last longer. If someone asks, you tell them that you have a girlfriend or lover. Don't give names, that's not for them to know. Even among celebrities, the longest lasting relationships are ones where they think the celebrity is single until they say they're taken & that's it. I know they say private relationships lead to abuse. All I have to say to that is if that relationship is abusive & can't be resolved by extensive talks, it's over. Play "Separated" by Usher as you walk out the door...

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